I’m pretty sure the real “Naughty or Nice” scorecard doesn’t exist, but there is at least one other scorecard that is worthy of our consideration; the one we keep ourselves.
Life, similar to the game of golf, is a game of integrity. Score it the way you want, but be aware:
1) What you write on your card…if it is a stretch or an oversight, it may come around later as a nightmare or a neurosis.
2) You can bet the strokes you choose not to record, will, inevitably, show up on your card later.
3) The score is not the objective; your character and integrity is.
It may have taken me a long time to get there, but I now go with full disclosure.
And…it’s a feel-good, peaceful scorecard.