Raw Strength and Strong Love


I once appealed (whined) to someone, “I need you to love me. I can’t live without your love.”

“Then you have a problem,” he answered without hesitation.

Although his response felt abrupt and insensitive, he was so right.

Whether male or female,

  •  self-reliance
  • self-validation
  • self-love 

are relationship essentials.

Ironically, it is only when we have these that we can truly have a strong love for someone else.

Without them…risk your mental health, succumb to jealousy, become co-dependent, be subject to abject loneliness, or have sporadic fits of fear or rejection.



5 thoughts on “Raw Strength and Strong Love

  1. o0o this is deep. Goodness…

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