I love this quote.
And, it is not just true for women. I love a man who is not trying to be macho, sexy, better than someone else, witty, charming, or any of the things they think may attract women or make them look good.
I much prefer a person comfortable enough in their own skin to see past their own self-absorption (as the Geico Gecko). It is that quality alone that allows someone to truly see and enjoy the other human beings around them.