Some days I am unsure about everything.
Should I work toward a goal or let it go?
Should I feel good about myself or bad about myself?
Should I be kind to someone or let them have it?
Should I care?
On those days (lately) what works:
- Talk it out with a trusted friend who will listen until you ask for their advice.
- Don’t argue with the help they offer. Listen. Appreciate.
- Have confidence that clarity will come when I need it.
- Be kind while I wait.
Yesterday a book came in the mail that I had ordered several weeks ago. It was exactly what I needed to read. (Anything You Want, Derek Sivers)
The ambivalence brought important questions to the surface.
Ambivalence didn’t kill me.